Getting to Know Someone

Bolo Kobul's 3 Kobul system is designed with your safety in mind. You only unlock chat (3rd Kobul) after both parties have mutually expressed interest. This means no stranger can message you out of the blue.

- Initial Conversation

- First Meeting

- Uncomfortable experience → Report or Block

Take your time to get to know someone before sharing personal details. Use Bolo Kobul's secure messaging system for all early conversations. Never share your NID number, bank details, home address, or workplace details until you have established significant trust.

Initial Conversation

Take your time to know the other person at your own pace. It is better not to be in a hurry as it is a life-changing, lifelong decision.

Ice Breaking:

- Use our chatting system in order to protect your identity

- Do not disclose your personal details such as bank particulars, home address, contact address and number, your name or any other identifiable information

Exchanging Phone Numbers:

- Hold on to this until you have established a reasonable level of trust

Skiptrace

- It’s smart to learn more about the member using various social networking sites and government resources.

- If you still want to know more, feel free to use third party background verification services

Be your own boss

- Don't let any member pressurize you into anything. Block or Report or simply inform us in such case. Every profile on Bolo Kobul has a Block option (three-dot menu on the profile card). Use it immediately if someone makes you uncomfortable — they will no longer be able to view your profile or contact you.

Watch for scams (common in Bangladesh)

Be alert to anyone who quickly asks for money, claims to be abroad and needs financial help, sends generic messages that don't reference your profile, or pressures you to move communication off the platform

We’ll be there for you

- For anything at all, you can contact us.

First Meeting

It’s natural to have butterflies in your stomach. Here are a few tips to plan your venue and travel:

- Pick a public place

- Take your own ride

- Bring a friend or relative along and ask the other member to do the same. In case you are meeting alone, inform a friend or family member of your plans

For anything at all, you can contact us.

Unpleasant Experience

We do our best to ensure you get the best possible experience while finding your life partner through BoloKobul.com. Every single profile is screened and inappropriate content and your matches are suggested as per your preferences. However, if you still have any unpleasant or uncomfortable experience or face any of the following:

x Someone sending harassing or offensive messages

x Someone sharing obscene photos

x Someone being abusive

x Someone sharing misleading information

x Someone asking for money

x Someone having multiple profiles

Report or Block the person.

For anything at all, you can contact us.

Symptoms of a Scamster

No genuine person would ask you for money, so DO NOT give money to anyone you meet through the platform. Even if the person claims to be in an emergency, report it to us immediately.

You might be dealing with a scamster if that person:

! Asks you to take your conversation outside BoloKobul.com at the very beginning

! Asks for money claiming it to be an emergency

! Disappears mysteriously from the website, and then reappears again

! Asks for your address under the guise of sending gifts or flowers

! Pretends to be serious about you unexpectedly fast

! Provides inconsistent descriptions about self

! Avoids introducing you to his/her family and friends

! Asks for money or mobile banking transfers early on

! Refuses video calls or in-person meetings

! Profile photos look too professional or stolen from social media

! Claims to be overseas Bangladeshi in urgent need

! Pushes to move to WhatsApp or Telegram quickly

! Story keeps changing on key details like job or family