When you keep sabr and pray continuously, Allah sends you miracles. My marriage is a fairytale and a miracle from Allah. My husband lives in our same road and we have a distance of five minutes only but all these years I had no idea that my soulmate lives so close to me. My husband is the most amazing, kindest, soft spoken human I ever saw! Shara apu from Bolo kobul, she is a blessing to me. Allah sent her as a bridge for our marriage. Lots of dua for Bolo Kobul and may Allah give you a long prosperous life Shara apu. Keep us in your prayers.

In the bustling corridors of university life, where dreams flourished and hearts danced to the rhythm of youth, I found myself enchanted by a senior who had ignited a spark within my heart. Little did I know that this enchantment would mark the beginning of a beautiful journey, one where I would become my very own matchmaker. The object of my affection was a senior, a charismatic individual who seemed to possess an aura of mystery and allure. As I secretly admired from afar, I knew that my feelings needed a voice, a way to bridge the gap between my heart and his. So, I turned to the age-old art of poetry, crafting verses that bared my soul and unveiled the emotions I had kept hidden for so long. In those carefully chosen words, I poured my heart out, leaving the poem as a message to be deciphered. It was a gamble, a leap of faith into the unknown. But as fate would have it, my feelings were reciprocated, and our love story began to unfold. Four magical years flew by, filled with laughter, shared dreams, and a bond that only grew stronger with each passing day. We supported each other through the highs and lows of life, navigating the challenges of university life and adulthood together. Our love became an unbreakable bond, and we knew that we were meant to be. A decade has now passed since we have tied the knot, and our love story continues to evolve. We are not just a couple; we are a family of four, with two beautiful children who embody the love that brought us together. Our journey has been a testament to the power of love, perseverance, and the belief that sometimes, the heart knows best. But our story is not just about us; it's about the ripple effect that love can create. Inspired by our own journey, I embarked on a mission to help others find their soulmates in a world where technology had changed the rules of dating. In an era dominated by swipes and screens, I am trying to become a beacon of hope, proving that love could still be found in the digital age. With unwavering determination, I delved into the intricacies of modern matchmaking, using technology as a tool to connect hearts and create lasting relationships. My journey as a matchmaker was fueled by the belief that everyone deserves a chance at true love, and I was determined to be the catalyst for that change. As I reflect on my journey, I am proud to say that I have successfully supported 83 prospects in finding their life partners. Each success story is a testament to the enduring power of love and the resilience of the human heart. In a world where love stories are often reduced to swipes and superficial connections, our story stands as a reminder that true love is worth the wait, the effort, and the risk. And I, the matchmaker, will continue to bring people together, one heartfelt connection at a time, proving that love can conquer all, even in the times of online dating apps.

Shara is a dedicated soul when it comes to matchmaking. I found the love of my life through her and there are many who found their life partner through her. I am really excited to know that she has launched her website “Bolo Kobul”. I have my best of wishes for her and her website.

We are really happy that we found each other through Bolokobul and Shara Apu!

Amidst this whirlwind of uncertainties, Bolo Kobul emerged as a beacon of hope for us. It was through this incredible platform that our paths converged. Meeting each other was nothing short of serendipitous. We were astounded by how much we had in common, how our aspirations aligned, and how effortlessly we connected. We became more than a name for each other; we became an integral part of each other’s shared destiny. As devout Muslims, we've always found solace and guidance in the teachings of Islam. An inspiring Hadith from Imam Amir-ul-Mu'mineen Ali [a] comes to mind which states that “The best mediations is it that you intercede between two persons for lawful marriage so that they both marry under the law of Allah.” Such teachings highlights the noble mission Bolo Kobul embarked upon. Our hearts brim with gratitude and admiration for the entire Bolo Kobul team.

Who should pay the bill during the first meet is an age-old debate. Even in this era of feminism and women being financially independent, most women would still rather prefer the men pay during the first meet. It does not make the woman any less independent but rather demonstrates the man to be a gentleman. Apart from being chivalrous and courteous, taking control exudes confidence and gives the woman a sense of security; because no matter how independent women are, they love being taken care of, pampered and appreciated. When we are talking about first meet ups, men instinctively think it has to be something extravagant. When in reality, it does not take up much to make any women happy. Most women are simply impressed by a bouquet of flowers or even by the man remembering how she likes her coffee. Similarly, in case of first meet ups, the man can simply take the woman to a place where the man’s wallet does not end up feeling lighter. After-all, women are supposed to be impressed by the company they are with and not by the place they are at.

I would like to thank Bolo Kobul for helping me meet my then future prospect and now wife. Although ours was a traditional marriage arranged by the families within six months of us meeting, we feel like we have known each other for a longer time. I'd recommend the services to people out there ready to tie the knot and looking to meet their future partners.

They say marriages are made in heaven and I couldn't agree more. But how do you meet your soulmate? Life is not a Karan Johar movie (much to my dismay) that you will accidentally bump into the love of your life and sparks will fly off immediately. Life is life, complicated and uncertain. Despite attending the same University, my husband and I, we never met. I didn't notice him when he was up on stage singing away at an Uni event. He didn't notice me while I sat laughing with my friends in the canteen. Two years, same place but we never bumped into each other in the corridor with books flying in the air as time slowed down and violins played. But does that mean our love story is any less than the cliched romances they show on TV? Absolutely not and we can't thank Shara Apu enough for this. In a country where love-marriages are frowned upon and "ghotoks" are your stereotypical Desi Aunties, Shara Apu is a breath of fresh air (read: a sigh of relief). Shara Apu's digital platform, Bolo Kobul is just the perfect solution as it will be able to help a larger group of singles looking for marriage.